I never really thought about online privacy and how I felt about it until Facebook did those updates to its terms of service agree sometime last year. I can be naive at times, especially when it comes to new tech. I get blinded by the shinny newness of it and all the tricks it can do and forget about the darkness that lurks beneath the surface. I too often give people or services the benefit of the doubt. I mean what serious uses could Facebook have for my information? Who am I, nobody too special. Then I begin to think about it in terms of appropriateness and how people should be treated and “A Bill of Privacy Rights for Social Network Users” makes too much since.
I wouldn’t say that all social networking sites are evil but it seems the bigger ones are willing to sacrifice their users for selfish reasons. Or maybe we aren’t looking at privacy in the right light anymore. It does seem more acceptable to live your life in the public sphere today. Personal conversations happen on twitter all the time and I can’t count the number of times I’ve seen arguments within comments on people’s Facebook pages. These conversations aren’t necessarily sharing personal information but five years ago it wouldn’t be something you shared with the whole world.
An example I can think of happens not too long ago on twitter. A friend of mine is a professional singer, he tours a lot and makes regular updates to his twitter account about his location, when he’s leaving his house, how his holiday was, etc. His sister also has a twitter account where she talks about her children, home schooling and how she feels about being a mother. These two comment to one another about their tweets, share pictures of their lives with their followers and have conversations about what’s happen within each others lives. This is sharp contrast to how they grew up. Their mother is from the British Isle and she is very aware of outward appearances and perceptions. She choose her words carefully and never shares more information than is necessary. If twitter was around twenty years ago the information her children share isn’t the same information she would share. Their mother would perceive them as being too open, sharing too much with people, even if the only people who read the tweets are friends they know personally. I have had this talk with my parents about what I share online and how I need to be ‘careful’.
Privacy is something that has come up in class before this weeks readings. I’m of the camp that each person has to make a decision for themselves as to how much is too much. I fully believe this should be up the person, not the social network they use to share it. If you want to see which social networking CEOs agree with me, go to their profile pages and see just how much they share with the world.